Have You Got What It Takes???

Dear Friends
 There is not a day that goes by that someone sits with Spirit and seems to think that if it wasn't for Bad Luck they would have no luck at all.
This makes not only myself smile they also give Spirit a good old giggle.
Thing is my friends you already have acquired everything that you have put out to the great Universe....Now I know you may be reading this Blog thinking ,hey I didn't ask for the bills that are piling up on the table, or I didn't ask for that horrific relationship to go completely pear shaped on me . Why did my soul mate leave me for my friend ? Well to start with this person was most definitely NOT your soul mate , if they were they would never ever hurt you in that kind of way. Thing is you actually did ASK! Unknowingly you have directed everything that is happening in your life at this very moment ...The good the Bad and the very Ugly. This can be a bitter pill to digest but when you allow yourself to sit back and really take a look at your life you will indeed find yourself nodding in agreement that everything that has happened for you up to this point in your life You my friend have been the conductor of your very own orchestra and the tunes that you have been sending out with every thought word and deed has a vibration that whether you realise it or not has a cause and effect directly to your LIFE!!!
We gotta be very careful when telling the universe exactly what we want. As just like a waiter with there notepad ready to write, so too has the universe Its actually listening to you this very moment. .... So The question is Have you got what it takes to be truly honest with yourself ...? It has taken me many years of life lessons and still I continue to learn to move with the ebb and flow of the universe it has most certainly thrown some huge curve balls my way which again were my lessons to accept and deal with then let go and move on. Simple Fact about me I like most people hate waiting it is like watching paint dry pointless? No to watch paint dry will most definitely show you the beautiful colour and also the small spaces on the wall where you haven't covered properly, Why? Because you were standing too close to the wall and not seeing the whole piece as one ...The same as the universe when we moan and groan about how crappy our lives are and nothings changing and why is everyone else moving forward and your feeling stuck?
The reason, is you.... The need to let go of the superficial ego and what other people are doing and how they live there lives is now of no concern of yours LET IT GO! Stop measuring your life and comparing it to the lives of others around you. Making comparisons has not done you any favours in the past so it most certainly wont in the future. It has no place in your NOW, Here's a little point to remember, When you envy or give out about how others have treated you badly in the past your DRINKING THE POISON AND EXPECTING SOMEONE ELSE TO GET SICK. Simple yet very true keep a check on your thoughts when you find yourself looking back remember the word POISON!
By doing this your retraining your mind its very simple so don't complicate things with mindless questions and self talk that brings you down POISON. I have had the pleasure to have sat with thousands of amazing people but at least 80% were living there lives in the past. The other 20% are way too busy looking forward and making life changes and enjoying every single bit of it. The smooth with the rough it all blends together. So what do the 20% actually do differently than the 80% that were feeling stuck in one or several areas of their lives.
They embrace change, they don't fear it, they look at life as a whole and not in categories , they do not separate themselves to be above or below anyone else, they keep their own counsel and accept when they have made a mistake and decide to rethink and change their own actions. By doing this these beautiful people are making huge strides in their lives , now don't take this wrong they too have their ups and downs but it is how they choose to REACT ... This is the Key...Action. When something terrible happens people seem to love repeating the woes of others whether it is on the news or just local gossip this has nothing to do with you so I dare you to ignore the drama queens and negative mind sets of others for Three Days...... Can you do this??
When you decide to Live and that you want more in your life for yourself , your partner , your children Do it! Don't wait for someone to take you by the hand like a baby get up and make your changes Today.
Thing is I know you have what it takes to succeed in this life you just need to acknowledge that you my friend are worth more. Dare to be Bold, Dare to step out of that so called comfort zone that you once thought was your lot in life to endure....nope its enjoy Something very big is happening very soon do you want to be a part of it??? Leave me a comment or message me on Facebook Medium Fiona Dennis For more info... Dare to make the life you want a real thing not a dream or a wish.
Blessings To Each and everyone that reads this Blog
Medium Fiona Dennis