Nothing Is As It Seems

Dear (J)
As I was reading your question I felt the usual push from Spirit to answer you this evening. The thing about families is that there isn't a family out there on the planet that hasn't had some type of trouble or trauma. I wouldn't believe anyone if they told me otherwise. The reason I say this is because of a couple of things I have tuned in for you as an individual. You seem to be always striving to do your best whether being it as yourself, or as a mother or wife , now this is not a bad thing accept when you may find yourself measuring your life in comparison with other members of your family. There may be things that you know nothing about going on in fact I am pretty positive that people in your family have been hiding there own life's hassles for fear of being judged by others.
Nothing at the moment around your family is as it may seem. There is a lot of lie's and drama in the back round that stem from past behaviours of old habits dying quite hard. There is a male who seems to disregard the truth from actual reality. And unfortunately seems to feel if he is not making thousands that his self worth means nothing. This for you is not the case. The need for you to break old chains within the family tree, like cutting back an apple tree in the autumn. We do this so we will reap the harvest of sweet fruit. The phrase we reap what we sow applies here. How can we expect truth and love from others if we are afraid ourselves to admit that we are damaged. In doing this even to sit with oneself and feeling the pain of the fear of loosing everything. You won't lose (J) you my dear will gain more than you realise than ever before. Stop focusing on loss especially around financial areas as the universe tends to give us exactly what we put out there so if its aligned with fear of loss in any area that is exactly what you will get.
When we measure ourselves to others standards we actually tell the universal laws that our own thinking and power is limited. Changing your views of how you would like to be to how you want to be will have a huge effect on not only you but your family too. Smiling is infectious but so is negative feelings and your body will absorb everything around you. The need to STOP! and drop the old overcoat of repeating old behaviours. Allow you to shine through, I know you fear this and that is why we send the help of Arch Angel Uriel to your side. Remember this Angel although his energy is soft and gentle he can be quite like a hurricane when summoned to remove old behaviours he won't hold back. But know this when this tsunami of feeling inadequate emotion passes you will not only feel good you will be a beacon of light that will be infectious to everyone you meet not only your family. You will see the light at the end of the tunnel but the fact is you need to get out of your own way and let LIFE do for you. With the knowledge that you are safe and fully protected from everything that is negative. Your Angels only see you through eyes of love. Allow yourself to embrace your life with the eyes and expectancy of a child. With Wonder. You can do this and as you do you will then and only then see CHANGE!
Let them do what you cannot do for yourself hand it completely over to them. As the title of this blog is Nothing is as it seems.......You will see this for yourself.
Let Go , and Let them do the work.
Blessings of Light
Fiona x