Yes You Can!

Dear Anon
I would like to begin by letting you know that you are not on your own when it comes to believing in oneself. There are many people out there struggling every single day with the same thing. In fact I would agree with you 100% on how others seem to forget where they have come from when times get better for them. Expecting others to admit this to you or themselves ...well I am guessing you already know that answer. They will never admit that they needed help. Why? Because they cannot bear to remember the pain or the hurt now I do not put everyone into this minute category as there are a select few solid grounded people on this earth that believe through sharing their own experiences of life can help others in hard or difficult circumstances. Spirit do not believe in the word (CAN'T) because from there own view point of the spiritual realms everything is possible when you take a good look at the word Impossible it really means I'm Possible...think about it.
You have a mother figure in Spirit that had a very hard old life indeed and yet she comes through here now smiling her name is Brigid. This lady shows me that she too was also gifted with the hand of healing and cures although her younger life was very hard indeed. A lot of abuse in different forms present themselves with her and yes she had several children whom yes she loved but she was told by others that she was unfit as she shows me adoption papers.
This lady did not set out to hurt anyone she knows that she is remembered and that you have two uncles that still sit in the quiet of night and talk to her. She wants them to know she hears them and tries her hardest to heal their hearts. It was only when she passed that she saw exactly what had happened there was nothing she could do. Going back in the early 50s she said they never had a choice she was sent away full of life to return empty and hollow. This stayed with her all her life until she passed in a hospital bed her heart stopped but she saying her heart had stopped from the moment she had to part with her sons. She holds you all very close and there is healing occurring each time someone speaks her name she is right there.
She comes to you this evening to tell you that you can achieve everything your heart desires and more, she wants you to look closely at your friendships and begin to move forward without needing anyone else to push you. You my friend are stronger than you think. Whether you realise this or not she has already set the wheels of your life in motion and you must allow her to show you what is true and what is the real reality within your circle right now. Not everyone may like the fact that you are growing and moving forward does not have to be a struggle the real people in your life will still be right there beside you. She said she heard you muttering how you can't do this and you can't do that...well you definitely have her characteristics for sure as she is just like you stubborn and beautiful inside  and out. She wants you to stop measuring your life with others as this is your own unique journey enjoy it and know that you make her smile ...A lot! Anon there is no such thing as CAN'T!!!! If you need to take a few days to get your head around things that's okay but do not ask for any one's opinions trust your own gut feelings and never be afraid to fly like the eagle she said you weren't born a pigeon (she's laughing) what a lady she is. You will see in the next three weeks how your whole life is going to change s do yourself a favour stop resisting the flow, know that great rivers know there own way to the sea be like the river and go with your flow.
You are blessed to have such strength in Spirit there for you always. Accept the help and leave what you do not want to the side. You will be glad you did.
Love and Blessings
Fiona x